Behavior Modification For Your Dream Career
If you have your 'dream career' and you are
not living it right now, then you certainly have various changes you need
to make to your behavior. In fact the only reason you are not already in
your dream career is because you lack certain 'character traits' that are
predominant among the 'species of your chosen career'.
Yes, you need to be able to modify
your behavior to be able to behave in ways very similar to the most
successful people in your chosen career. Remember 'birds of the same
feather flock together' ...
So if you want to launch yourself
along a certain career path, you need to be able to behave in the way that
is predominant among the people already in that line of business.
This is a very important element for
'modeling', and if you have read some of my earlier articles, you will
know that modeling success is the main route to launching yourself
into a career of your choice. This is also an offshoot of the 'Fake it
till you make it' concept... and this is quite true to a great extent
because ...
if you behave in a certain way, you start
thinking in that way, this leads to believing in that way, ultimately
doing or performing or taking action in that way. For instance you will
notice that kids that are whiners in their earlier years tend to start
believing that they are no good, or can't do good and then develop a
negative attitude which leads to negative actions thereby reinforcing
their 'whiner beliefs' further and leading to negative personalities later
on. And of course vice versa...
Yes your behavior shapes your beliefs,
which shapes your attitude , which shapes your actions , which shapes your
life and career.
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